You make a mistake. You take on too much, and you make a mistake, and you don't ask for help. So that mistake gets bigger and bigger and worse and worse, and...
Eventually, people get hurt. You are not aware or in control, but once you know it's happening, you let it go for days.
I...
I figure it out, and I help you. Nobody is particularly grateful for it, except a small few, everyone is emotional and angry, and then... the next big thing happens and the hurts begin to mend or are forgotten and people start to move on.
And that, I think, is almost as bad as still hanging on to the hate. Nobody-- resolves anything here. They just bury it in the wake of the next bit of madness.
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Date: 2013-08-11 09:42 pm (UTC)Eventually, people get hurt. You are not aware or in control, but once you know it's happening, you let it go for days.
I...
I figure it out, and I help you. Nobody is particularly grateful for it, except a small few, everyone is emotional and angry, and then... the next big thing happens and the hurts begin to mend or are forgotten and people start to move on.
And that, I think, is almost as bad as still hanging on to the hate. Nobody-- resolves anything here. They just bury it in the wake of the next bit of madness.